What About That?
What do you do if, by the time you find your soulmate/twinflame/mirror... they have been through so much crap that they don't trust the opposite sex anymore, or they seem unglued? What then?
Then you cancel the request and make a new one!
:)
Next question is: what happens if you find your soulmate/twinflame/mirror, and they have been through so much crap that they don't trust the opposite sex anymore, or they seem unglued, and you cancel the request and make a new request to find your very healthy soulmate/twinflame/mirror who is enthusiastic about the friendship between you, and respects you and your boundaries, and is supportive of you, has your back, and is even keeled and fair minded, and strong within him or her self, and has a great sense of humor and is a wonderful partner?
Then you cancel the request and make a new one!
:)
Next question is: what happens if you find your soulmate/twinflame/mirror, and they have been through so much crap that they don't trust the opposite sex anymore, or they seem unglued, and you cancel the request and make a new request to find your very healthy soulmate/twinflame/mirror who is enthusiastic about the friendship between you, and respects you and your boundaries, and is supportive of you, has your back, and is even keeled and fair minded, and strong within him or her self, and has a great sense of humor and is a wonderful partner?
Other People's Problems
Be careful of labeling what you don't understand, psychiatric diagnoses are not something to be trifled with. If a person goes to five psychiatrists he or she will get five different opinions. Psychiatry is a new field, science is just scratching the surface; anyone who thinks it's a hard science doesn't know what hard science means. Especially be careful of labeling someone else before you get a work-up done on yourself. The human brain is not a computer, yours included, even those whose IQs are way above average. Your perception of another person is completely colored by your own imperfect brain, your past experiences, your conditioning, your beliefs, even the TV shows you watched. Real psychiatric professionals (good ones) consult with others and do in-depth testing, and refer to research and studies, and consult again, when diagnosing someone, because they are aware that they are subject to their own faulty perceptions and prejudices. Your brain already has an agenda about what you want someone else to be, and if you are not aware of that fact, you will continue to see them as not living up to your personal expectations of them, and labeling them damaged or deficient. Go get yourself diagnosed, see if your own perception is causing you to see them as screwed up. You might the one who needs new glasses.
Expectations
Discover who another is; find out what another has seen, what they have learned, what their fears are and their love. Discover, don't assume and expect; don't try to make them fit in the coffin you have made for them. Every expectation of yours they don't meet you will see as failure, and every expectation they exceed you will see as pompousness. You did not create the other, you are not privy to all of the circuitry of their minds, or the soft spots in their hearts, or the map of their souls. Let go of what you think they should be and discover who they are.
Believe
Belief in a Source greater than ourselves means accepting that there is something greater than ourselves, and greater than each other.
Peace
"A musician must make music, an artist must paint, a poet must write... What one can be, one must be."
~Abraham Maslow
~Abraham Maslow
Sneakin out the back door~
What's the difference between Duality and Dichotomy, besides that they both begin with "D"? Wait, that would be a similarity, like a pair of shoes that one would wear if they fit. Not that I would notice someone wearing two different shoes.
Pow Wow
Coming back from a Native Pow Wow in Pennsylvania, what a beautiful day with my cousins Adam and Joyce, and company, and puppy dog. Lovely authentic Native regalia worn by the participants; continuous ritual demonstrations, and at the end three Screech Owls were released by a rehabilitator into the wild. More details and pics later, for now I am feeling blessed to have shared such a spiritual experience with people close to my heart.
What ~ what ~
After trying on a zillion silly bathing suits and not finding a single one that I like, or that is made for a human, I have given up. The only place I am going to find one I like is inside my storage unit. Buried. I have also come to the conclusion, after being subjected to three way mirrors for way too long, that I am no longer 15. How does this happen? I was 15 just yesterday~ not sure how to handle this whole linear time thing...
Wünderbar
Fabulous! to see more excellent people today, along with excellent junior people; sharing their company is such a blessing. The weather was pure perfection for it, too. And now that they have gone home (long drive), we get to finish off the food! W00t!
Seeking
Frustration follows those with expectations. Seek enlightenment and true love not just in ivory towers and temples where those who gather have been blessed with a life of university, supportive friends and family, healthy food and worldly success. Instead seek it where you do not expect, in the faces of those you happen to meet, those who have lived in the trenches of life, who have scars on them, who dig in the dirt, who feel your pain, who cry for others. Look for the signs, believe your spirit. Seek it in those who have walked through hellfire alone and still have love in their eyes, wonder in their hearts and laughter in their souls.
Halcyon
Running down the avenue
Or down the dirt and gravel road,
Or up the rutted drive way;
the earth beneath your feet turning.
Speeding like a cannonball,
a short magnum bullet,
a cruise missile,
Stardust;
the sun above your head burning.
Soaring like a Red-tailed Hawk,
a Golden Eagle,
a Peregrine Falcon;
the troposphere through your wings blowing.
Diving like an Orca,
a Barracuda,
a Sailfish;
the sea across your skin flowing.
Screaming like a Bugatti,
the Maglev train,
an X-15;
the sound around your crown breaking.
Go fast, and faster still, tender legs aching.
Go fast, go quickly.
On your way, out of sight,
out of the brightness of today,
sprinting,charging, into night.
And yet you are still here;
And yes, it is still now.
Whatever path you take, you are still here.
However fast you run,
however fast you fly,
it is still now.
M.Black
Or down the dirt and gravel road,
Or up the rutted drive way;
the earth beneath your feet turning.
Speeding like a cannonball,
a short magnum bullet,
a cruise missile,
Stardust;
the sun above your head burning.
Soaring like a Red-tailed Hawk,
a Golden Eagle,
a Peregrine Falcon;
the troposphere through your wings blowing.
Diving like an Orca,
a Barracuda,
a Sailfish;
the sea across your skin flowing.
Screaming like a Bugatti,
the Maglev train,
an X-15;
the sound around your crown breaking.
Go fast, and faster still, tender legs aching.
Go fast, go quickly.
On your way, out of sight,
out of the brightness of today,
sprinting,charging, into night.
And yet you are still here;
And yes, it is still now.
Whatever path you take, you are still here.
However fast you run,
however fast you fly,
it is still now.
M.Black
Important Matters
There are only a few things that matter, Love, Laughter, Compassion, Honesty, Faith, Love and Laughter, in that order, or in any order; the rest are just paths to them.
Horses Horses Horses Horses
A horse walks into a bar.
The bartender says
"Why the long face?"
Oh my dark heart that STILL wrecks me!!!
The bartender says
"Why the long face?"
Oh my dark heart that STILL wrecks me!!!
Happy Birthday
To one of the most important souls to ever touch my life. You have made it to the Great Answer, the Magick Number, and now ye shall Awaken to live the Life you were destined to...
Happy Birthday J R S !!!
Forever Love To You !!!
Happy Birthday J R S !!!
Forever Love To You !!!
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