Little Gidding

Expecting children to mature beyond the example their elders set for them makes no sense. Fortunately, many do anyway, seeking role model...

"Countering" is when a person automatically says "black" when you say "white", it's a "keeping co...

A clever (diabolical) little trick that many Controllers/Narcissists play on targets: Hiding invitations to events, not relaying messages...

Ignoring and dismissing the Light and the Good because one is focused on the Darkness and the Bad is the same naivete as the other way ar...

Excellent article by E. Christakis M.P.H., M.Ed., an early-childhood educator, public-health advocate and lecturer at Yale University. He...

Treating you like you don't know something, or are inexperienced, physically weaker, less intelligent, or less aware than themselves. T...

Narcissists are all about how THEY get treated by others, but seem oblivious to the way others get treated. They are very watchful and ev...

Labeling, categorizing, and grouping is good for those with Narcissistic agendas. Another product of growing up in a dysfunctional envir...

Denying that Western culture is heavily male-biased is just a symptom of the bias-conditioning itself, and contributes greatly to the Narci...

The habit of judging others to be "lesser" is of course much used by those afflicted with Narcissism, and also those who don'...

Anti-blonde prejudice and stereotyping is one of the most common examples of projection. The coincidence of anti-blond jokes and ridicul...

"She is so self-centered! All she does is sit there on her computer!" "All he cares about is his wife and family! He neve...

Make no mistake~ Narcissists, regardless of their relationship with a target (parent, sibling, "friend", partner, coworker, rela...

If you see an entire group of human beings as generally "child like", weaker, less intelligent and less capable, and your group a...

"Tolerance" is not the same as "Respecting Others". Tolerance is for the fearful and the judgmental. Respect, however...

One of the things Controllers seem to like very much is to project incompetence, inexperience, and lack of intelligence or skill onto ot...

All humans carry a metaphorical mental lens that they look at the world through, and look at others through. Like a personal glass that we ...

You know your community is afflicted with Narcissism if you know that neighbors are watching you when you clean your car, mow your lawn, ...

Basic parameters for treatment of the opposite sex: > If you would not say it to one of your same-sex friends because it's demeani...

Another very common Narc. trait (that less mature people do also, such as children who have not yet grown out of this stage) is assuming yo...