Little Gidding

 Forms of Sabotage And Domination Some common subtle and obvious forms of sabotage and domination displays*: > frequently interrup...

Children, younger and older, are going to reject guidance and rebel against their parents, teachers, and other adults. It's what they d...

Narcissist/Controller Flag: Asking Questions But Countering The Answers (every time) Controller: "What do you feel like for supper? ...

Narcissist Flag, One-Way-Communication Talking at length about bad things or good things that happened to them ( relatively "norma...

Ironically, Narcissists will accuse another person of being  narcissistic, self-centered, or arrogant when the other person doesn't agr...

Perhaps the number one thing to keep in mind about Narcissists is that they honestly, literally, fully believe that they are BETTER THAN ...

If you can picture something you have a "weakness" for~ such as chocolate, or other sweets~ when you pass by the cookie tray, y...

This article by Gudrun Zomerland, MFT summarizes the condition of Narcissism and the effects that a Narcissist has on a close target, espe...

One of the things that is either difficult, or uninteresting, for most Narcissists (but not necessarily sociopaths) is the concept of Cau...

I have found more women to judge others as "inferior" or "superior" based on height and size, instead of actually fi...

Expecting children to mature beyond the example their elders set for them makes no sense. Fortunately, many do anyway, seeking role model...

"Countering" is when a person automatically says "black" when you say "white", it's a "keeping co...

A clever (diabolical) little trick that many Controllers/Narcissists play on targets: Hiding invitations to events, not relaying messages...

Ignoring and dismissing the Light and the Good because one is focused on the Darkness and the Bad is the same naivete as the other way ar...

Excellent article by E. Christakis M.P.H., M.Ed., an early-childhood educator, public-health advocate and lecturer at Yale University. He...

Treating you like you don't know something, or are inexperienced, physically weaker, less intelligent, or less aware than themselves. T...

Narcissists are all about how THEY get treated by others, but seem oblivious to the way others get treated. They are very watchful and ev...

Labeling, categorizing, and grouping is good for those with Narcissistic agendas. Another product of growing up in a dysfunctional envir...

Denying that Western culture is heavily male-biased is just a symptom of the bias-conditioning itself, and contributes greatly to the Narci...

The habit of judging others to be "lesser" is of course much used by those afflicted with Narcissism, and also those who don'...