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One Sided Friendship, Relationship

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When another person is upset about something, and the person they're upset with refuses to listen to or acknowledge the reason, and th...

Are You More Important Than Your Partner?

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If you adamantly don't want your lover to leave you, but don't actually take them as seriously as you take yourself, or care THAT ...

Grooming Others To Be Supportive

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The smaller details in the patterns reveal the bigger picture: Wondering why people seem so supportive of some people, no matter how trivi...

Why So Many Lawyers And Doctors Condescend

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Condescension is not a mark of expertise, efficiency, or experience. It's actually an indication of defensiveness. Think about it ...

Your Own World

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Imagine yourself on your own planet. You get to make this world into whatever you want it to be, it's your creative project, and it...

Teachers Who Are Narcissists Aren't Fun

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Narcissists (and those who are Narcissistic) make terrible Teachers! They don't make good teachers, they make terrible teachers. The f...

Who's Fault Is It, Anyway...Relationships

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What's your fault in a painful relationship? ~ He ignores you when you talk... Nope, not your fault. ~ She stands you up for dinne...

Worried That You Might Have A Personality Disorder? Mental Illness? Trauma?

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Sometimes labels can drive us away from healing, because who wants to be stamped with a disorder? The truth is all humans are susceptible...

Government Or Sports?

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What would happen if people took solving Government problems half as seriously as they take SPORTS? Hahahaaa!!!

Serious, Studious, Intensely Concentrating-Problem Solvers In Washington, D.C.

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When is the last time everyone in your algebra class was working on a resolving a difficult problem, and they all kept getting up and bla...

The False Power Of Controllers

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The "power" a Controller has over a target is largely false. An important part of the process of gaining control others, whethe...

Envy And Fleas

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When you refer to yourself, or I refer to myself..  When I talk about myself and use "I" and "me", or when you do the s...

Above Reproach

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When we begin to believe that we are one of those without arrogance, bigotry, or ego, we may want to count our resentments and annoyances...

The Costs Of Beliefs, Stereotypes, Assumptions And Ego

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The "Crazy-Making", Narcissistic, generally abusive behavior coming from men does LOOK different on the outside from abusive beha...

Malala

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http://www.upworthy.com/watch-this-incredible-young-woman-render-jon-stewart-speechless?c=ufb1 Malala on the Daily Show with Jon Stewart,...

Authority, Fuzzy Boundaries, and Narcissism

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Misunderstanding the difference between legitimate authority and made-up social hierarchy is one of the traits that's common in those...

Paradigm Shifts

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It's normal to feel uncomfortable and even ill when faced with evidence that we've been living with false assumptions and beliefs...

Changing How People Treat You

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Yes, you CAN change how others generally treat you by changing your own behavior and appearance. But that's definitely NOT the whole ...

Too Smart

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Narcissists DO commonly treat those who they get a "smart/intelligent" vibe from with disrespect and condescension. By the time...

Bias

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Bias is basically when I'm supportive and interested in one kind of person, but bored with and non-supportive toward another kind of ...