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Are You A Good Person or A Bad Person

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Placing "value judgment" on everything and everyone can be a sign of a personality disorder, a mental illness, OR it can actually...

Enlightenment Conundrum

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The only ones who are actually interested in learning things from another's point of view, or continuing to learn things that they didn...

Are You A Wise Elder, or An Enlightened Youth?

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There has never been a generation born on Earth who did not believe they had much more figured out than their "ignorant elders"...

Incessant "Advice": Narcissistic Codependent

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Codependents with Narcissism are the ones who are constantly forcing "advice" and "help" onto targets with no respect fo...

Taking You Seriously, Red Flag

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~If I am not one of the people you take seriously, why on earth would you think that you're one of the people I take seriously? Flags...

Healthy Boundaries

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What "Healthy Boundaries" are can be hard to describe in a literal sense. Some compare them to a fence around each person, ot...

Who Do You Choose To Learn From

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"Affirmations", these quotes that we share, were not usually spoken or written by someone who were fed candies by servants or ...

Laughter Actually IS Good Medicine

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Laughter is one of those things that a person who feels healthy and happy does often, and the same person will often do less and less when ...

Feeling Like Life Sucks And There's No Way To Make It Better

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Depression, anxiety, darkness, greyness, crappiness, dead-end job, no future, no life, etc. People who grow up around abusive and Narciss...

Competition And Oppression Are Two Different Things

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There is a very big difference between "competition" and "oppression". ~ Oppressors will always say that what's h...

Why You Think You Can't Learn That (Before You Even Try)

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Attaching importance, danger, and anxiety: Making a big deal out of things is part and parcel to the human ego, so the bigger/more infl...

Anti Authority Irony

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Traits of Borderline Pers. Disorder that seemsto be very, very common among adults in this current cultural era, (with or without BPD dia...

Assumptions People Make About Each Other

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Some of the common (and very funny!) assumptions that people make about each other in many Western cultures, without actually finding out a...

Addiction, Priorities, Self-Care and Narcissistic Abuse

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Long story short: One of the main things that happens to a target of abuse is that the person is "taught" or conditioned to put ...

Mr. Bennett

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This is the weblog of a person I greatly admired, Mr. James E. Bennett. He was a brilliant musician, writer, philosopher, artist, "thi...

Who Cares About Human Behavior!

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There are as many reasons for seeking understanding as there are human beings on the Earth. The most important of these are one's own.

Strong Roots Make Strong Trees

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It's the depth and quality of the soil that gives the trees a good place to grow. It's the sunlight, water, and nutrients in the...

Funny Guy In The Group

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Games People Play, vying for status and dominance ~ Why don't people like to talk about this stuff? (Because it's embarrassing to f...

Anxiety in Dysfunctional Environments

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Codependent and Narcissistic environments often find a person with seemingly free-floating negative feelings that don't appear to be at...

Being Human

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Signs of a mature and secure Human Being: ~Straightforward and honest ~Supportive of the other people in their life ~Compassionate towa...