Little Gidding

Finding Freedom: What Really Happened? : It has been said that history is written by the winners.  And rewritten ...by politicians and biase...

Children suffer the most from exposure to Narcissism. This statement is likely to trigger defensiveness, denial, or even rage in a person w...

One of the symptoms that can be seen in both Codependency and "BPD" is looking for others to match one's own emotions about v...

If I don't agree with you about something that can not be proven scientifically, it just means that we're probably looking at the s...

There is no way to prevent future Narcissists from seeking out targets and ending up in their "sites". They exist, they're ...

It's not uncommon for a person who has Narcissism themselves to put the "Narcissist" label on another person and "cond...

Beware of humans who don't "get" love, companionship, and respect for animals. It's not necessarily a Narc-flag, and the...

A key trait of Narcissism is willful blindness to one's own contribution to a negative situation. Self-reflection and admission of o...

Randall Ensley's latest piece can be viewed at the Hygienic Gallery in New London, CT

Regarding kindred spirits, parent/child relationships, and romantic partner relationships, a person who is trying to have a relationship ...

Since they think they already know a lot of information about other people that they know, meet, or see, Narcissists will often accuse anot...

Fixation and focus on the physical world, including the human body, is common in those who display Narcissism traits. Focus and attention...

We humans like to set up our world a certain way and then say "That's how it was when I got here!" If I teach my daughter to ...

Scapegoating and Narcissism are intrinsically connected. If one is present, the other is also, even if it's not immediately evident. Sc...

The desire and need for connection with other humans, especially family and friends, is HEALTHY and NORMAL. The desire and need for POSITI...

When a person with Narcissism describes someone as being a "nice person" (male or female), what they're actually saying is th...

One of the hurtles to recovery that many targets face is the desire for the other person (or people) to be accountable. This is why detachm...

Groups that Scapegoat are usually the same groups that seek to appoint someone as "Leader". Many, many people are engulfed in ...

One thing you won't see a person with Narcissism do (regardless of having any other diagnoses), is go to a counselor to help them lea...

Another common manipulation tactic is the attempt to get "everyone" to agree not to "like" a certain person anymore. ...