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Psychiatry? Psychology? Or Blowing Smoke On Occam's Razor?

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Let us ask, in the name of science and Occam's Razor, why it seems so much easier for humans to diagnose behavioral and apparent emoti...

Narcissists Do Not Make Natural Bonds

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One of the things that can be difficult to grasp about "Narcissism" is that people who have it do not make "natural bonds...

Whining Children, Bitching Spouses: Language And Control

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When it comes to other people's emotions, a RED FLAG of Narcissism is the WORDS used to describe those emotions.  This language habit ...

Training Day Is Every Day With A Narcissist

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Controllers/Narcissists try to TRAIN targets to become what they want them to become. This training is based on the Narcissist's desire...

Invalidation Is About Domination

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Invalidation is a domination and bully tool. Their desire to make a target into a "lower status" person is so great that a Narcis...

Some Common Narcissist Traits

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All "Narcissists" have some things in common, regardless of their underlying issues: A compulsion to dominate and control anyon...

Respect (Lack Thereof: Narcissism)

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Respect. ~ Narcissists do not respect other people's: point of view experience values autonomy space choices opinion ability...

Turning Molehills Into Mountains; Narcissistic Criticism, Judgment, and Projection

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Turning normal and even healthy human activities, behaviors, and attributes into "character flaws" about another person, or crime...

Humility

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Humility requires letting go of the desire for supremacy over other human beings, and the feeling of entitlement to be an authority and hav...

BLAME and DOMINATION

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Blaming... everything that happens has to be someone's fault, or something someone did wrong - either "on purpose", or becau...

Anti-Establishment, Rebellion, Fairness, Justice, RIghts

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Hypocrite: A person who "fights for equal rights, justice, and fair treatment"... but not for those other people... If you...

When Your Wife, Partner, Friend, Or Child Is A "Bitch"

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A red flag of Codependency OR Narcissism is when a person talks about their spouse, partner, friend, family member, or business partner i...

NPD or Something Else

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It helps us to recognize what's really going on with a person who's displaying behaviors that could be construed as abusive or Na...

Aggressive Or Defensive

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People who have aggressive behaviors, especially if they suffer from some form of illness or disorder (can include PTSD) often do NOT see...

How Abusers Maintain Control Over Another Person

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The three main methods Controllers keep control over a target is inducing fear of consequence for non-compliance to their commands and expe...

Which One Is The Narcissist, Which Is The Target?

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So a couple you know seems to be opposites of each other. They might also be a pair of friends, a pair of siblings, or a parent/child pair....

Other "Smart", "Talented", or "Attractive" People: Narcissists Don't Likey

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Healthy people LOVE to meet "kindred spirits", that is people who they have important things IN COMMON with so they can do those ...

Bullies Are Full Of Fear

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People with domination/bully issues typically don't stand up against bullies, they don't stand up FOR other people against bullie...

Gossip, Slander, Attention Whores

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Whether a negative story about another person is true or not, it's slander if it's used as an excuse to treat the person poorly, ...

Image, Status, Acceptance, and Sexism

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Narcissism, Sexism, and Racism go hand in hand because they have the same source: the desire to be SEEN AS A MEMBER OF A CERTAIN GROUP , an...