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R.E.S.P.E.C.T.

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Those who were not guided about what "respect" means often believe that it's the same as fear, or the same as admiration. The...

Rage Trigger: Neutrality And The Absence Of Overt Sweetness

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Rage trigger:   Someone showing any annoyance or anger toward them can trigger a person with certain emotional illnesses to a defensive ...

Regulating Emotions And Behaviors: Recovery

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A lack of regulating one's emotional reactions and behaviors is one of the main problems often found in those with untreated, unhealed ...

Recovery, Childhood Trauma, Neglect, Abuse~

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Growing up in unstable conditions has a direct effect on a person, regardless of what caused the instability. When neglect or abuse was p...

Equality, Respect, Recognition, Women and Men

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Women are often perplexed by the lack of respect and fairness they receive in many areas of life, and tend to become very frustrated by the...

Status Monkey

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Are you a Status Monkey? Do you judge what other people do and say according to whether you like them or not? According to whether you t...

Hypocrisy And ABORTION

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HYPOCRISY: Judging those who get pregnant out of wedlock as "bad", REFUSING to BE SUPPORTIVE or AT LEAST NOT NASTY to those in on...

Red Flag: My Friends or Family Members Don't Like My Partner

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Red Flag that a friend, family member, or coworker may have Narcissism, or other emotional illness: ~They act strangely, coldly, or nega...

Male Point Of View And Mr. Peabody

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For those who are interested in the subject of cultural conditioning and how sex/gender roles are subtly conveyed to children, the movie ...

Annoyed At Babies And Children, Control And Narcissism

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When a baby is born, we immediately see if the baby can make noise and respond to external stimuli. When the baby responds, we can tell t...

Embracing Sexism: People Who Want Gender Roles And Stereotypes To Be Real

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It's no big mystery why so many boys willingly embrace believing when they're told that males are superior to females. Being superi...

"Desperately Seeking Targets": What Narcissists Want

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What do Narcissists seek in a romantic partner, business partner, employee, or friend? Cross the word "Partner" out first. Nar...

Sign That You May Be Dealing WIth A Narcissist

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A sign that you MIGHT be dealing with a person who has Narcissism in a personal relationship: You feel like you have to coax them to pay...

Right Or Wrong And What's Important

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Forget about who's right and who's wrong about minutia, technicalities, and morality. If they don't understand what's so ...

Just Me A 'DONM' by Amanda Seal

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Just me a 'DONM' By Amanda Seal. She's not in my life but still here in disguises, Dressed in her 'narc' black cloak...

Controllers Look For Social Signals

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Controllers, especially those with Narcissism, are looking for social signals from others. They look for body language, facial expressions,...

Controlling Others With Language Habits

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Controllers don't need to consciously plan out what they're going to do or say in order to establish or re-establish control over a...

Narcissist Or Non-Narcissist

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Narcissists are happy when they get what they want and when they feel like they're in control, regardless of how others around them ar...

Obsession With Dominance

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Those who have dominance issues often target the same people, whether they're male or female. Dominance issues and behaviors are very c...

The Nail That Sticks Up Gets Hammered With Status-Quo

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The "Status Quo" of any culture is maintained by controllers, so those who don't fit in are targeted. This can be seen in mos...