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Insecurity And Safety In Numbers

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Insecure, immature people NEED "safety in numbers", so they will often turn against a person who does not completely go along wit...

Going Along With The Crowd

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Those with Narcissism, and also those who simply lack maturity, tend to judge people and things by how other people act, and what other peo...

Controlling Narcissists Block Good Things

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A common controller/narcissist behavior: purposely NOT doing something, purposely NOT sharing information, purposely hiding something, purp...

Selective Compassion

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Humans tend to sympathize selectively, not universally. Bias is usually about one's own identity, so people tend to have "compas...

When Is Rejecting and Despising Someone Okay?

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Rejecting, ejecting, ostracizing, or "despising" a person for anything less than a very serious transgression is evidence of eit...

Humans, Domination Behavior, And Denial

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As a function of self-preservation, Human Beings tend to adamantly deny traits about themselves that could be seen as flaws, or that expose...

R.E.S.P.E.C.T.

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Those who were not guided about what "respect" means often believe that it's the same as fear, or the same as admiration. The...

Rage Trigger: Neutrality And The Absence Of Overt Sweetness

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Rage trigger:   Someone showing any annoyance or anger toward them can trigger a person with certain emotional illnesses to a defensive ...

Regulating Emotions And Behaviors: Recovery

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A lack of regulating one's emotional reactions and behaviors is one of the main problems often found in those with untreated, unhealed ...

Recovery, Childhood Trauma, Neglect, Abuse~

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Growing up in unstable conditions has a direct effect on a person, regardless of what caused the instability. When neglect or abuse was p...

Equality, Respect, Recognition, Women and Men

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Women are often perplexed by the lack of respect and fairness they receive in many areas of life, and tend to become very frustrated by the...

Status Monkey

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Are you a Status Monkey? Do you judge what other people do and say according to whether you like them or not? According to whether you t...

Hypocrisy And ABORTION

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HYPOCRISY: Judging those who get pregnant out of wedlock as "bad", REFUSING to BE SUPPORTIVE or AT LEAST NOT NASTY to those in on...

Red Flag: My Friends or Family Members Don't Like My Partner

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Red Flag that a friend, family member, or coworker may have Narcissism, or other emotional illness: ~They act strangely, coldly, or nega...

Male Point Of View And Mr. Peabody

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For those who are interested in the subject of cultural conditioning and how sex/gender roles are subtly conveyed to children, the movie ...

Annoyed At Babies And Children, Control And Narcissism

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When a baby is born, we immediately see if the baby can make noise and respond to external stimuli. When the baby responds, we can tell t...

Embracing Sexism: People Who Want Gender Roles And Stereotypes To Be Real

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It's no big mystery why so many boys willingly embrace believing when they're told that males are superior to females. Being superi...

"Desperately Seeking Targets": What Narcissists Want

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What do Narcissists seek in a romantic partner, business partner, employee, or friend? Cross the word "Partner" out first. Nar...

Sign That You May Be Dealing WIth A Narcissist

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A sign that you MIGHT be dealing with a person who has Narcissism in a personal relationship: You feel like you have to coax them to pay...

Right Or Wrong And What's Important

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Forget about who's right and who's wrong about minutia, technicalities, and morality. If they don't understand what's so ...