Little Gidding

Sorry, but you can't be "Liberal" and "Left Wing" at the same time. Nor can you be "Conservative" and ...

Bullies, Narcissists, and especially sociopaths with Narcissism often do the polar OPPOSITE of what a non-narcissist or bully would do in...

Biased evidence gathering means you already believe something to be true, so you gather "evidence" that supports your belief, and...

Many people who appear to have "Narcissism", or behave in a narcissistic-like fashion, may actually have another undiagnosed ment...

If you find you're very fatigued and don't really know why, trying listening objectively to observe what other people around you do...

It's common for those (both men and women) who have been conditioned to believe that Patriarchal hierarchy is real to treat girls and...

If you don't know what it feels like to be a Target of a Narcissist, and you want to learn: (shortcut at bottom of page) ~Ask someone t...

Point of view of a Controller: Imagine that when you're walking with someone you know, you have to either be in front of them or behin...

One of the main differences between a fake friend and a real friend: real friends defend their friend (spouse, family member) when someone ...

Do not use television or film characters as role models for acceptable human behavior, or how adults are supposed to act. It's entertai...

If you think Christianity is about controlling or judging others, or "sending people to hell", you have it completely backwards...

Anger is an emotion, it's not a behavior. In a mentally/emotionally healthy person, anger usually occurs when one has been hurt, betray...

People who identify themselves as being a member of a greater Hierarchy, such as in the larger community and/or a smaller group, tend to ...

Every day of a person's life is as a precious jewel. There are no days that are less valuable, or less important. Not illness nor injur...

If a community, a social living group, of humans is mentally and emotionally healthy, then they would learn "toughness" from doin...

If it seems like some people in your life are trying to make you feel emotion, such as anxious, guilty, self-conscious, worried, sad, ang...

Unfortunately people with Narcissism, or just a lack of maturity, are all around us. If we ever want to leave the house, or our bedroom i...

Words and terms we use every day are interpreted differently by different people, even in the same community or family. For instance the wo...

"Enlightenment" is not becoming some kind of Guru or Advanced Spiritual Being. It's the realization that we are not nearly a...