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Along With The Crowd

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It's an automatic Human behavior to try to fit in with the surrounding crowd, because of the fact that we're social primates. In ...

Losers, Black Sheep, Scapegoats: ICKY

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Hard one for me to wrap my mind around, but true: Many with superiority complex issues actually see other people, even their own children a...

Control And Bully Tactic: Double Binds

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Double binds are a favorite control tactic of narcissists and bullies. They love to give advice, and then treat the person they gave the ...

Living In The Race: Winning Is Everything

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Controllers are focused on other people, especially Narcissists, so they don't just do what they're doing or just focus on their ...

Putting Others Ahead Of Yourself

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That feeling of self-imposed limbo, where you stop yourself from doing all kinds of things that you want or need to do, and feel a rubber-b...

Scanners: Narcissists Scan Others Constantly

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Social Signals. You give them whether you mean to or not, and those who have Narcissism issues ~ especially N's who are 'predato...

Making Her Feel Like She Doesn't Belong

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Trying to make a person feel like they don't belong, are incapable, less worthy, unwanted, unstable, or a "loser" is ONLY don...

Asperger's Traits That May Resemble Narcissism (But Aren't)

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Those who know, work with, or are related to a person with "Asperger's" may confuse some of their behaviors with "Narcis...

Our Modern Era, Self-Destruction, Or Growing Up?

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The current era we live in has A. more people than ever before B. more people living much longer C. more mass media and mass communicati...

Hottie Award Goes To...

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A common Narcissist. behavior:  Competing with others for physical attractiveness, on a pretty regular basis, in random groups, and especia...

Liberal Conservative HOOEY

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Sorry, but you can't be "Liberal" and "Left Wing" at the same time. Nor can you be "Conservative" and ...

It's Not Just Bad Manners Or Self-Centeredness: Narcissism

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Bullies, Narcissists, and especially sociopaths with Narcissism often do the polar OPPOSITE of what a non-narcissist or bully would do in...

Biased Evidence Gathering

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Biased evidence gathering means you already believe something to be true, so you gather "evidence" that supports your belief, and...

Frustration Of Supporting Loved Ones With Mental Health Issues

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Many people who appear to have "Narcissism", or behave in a narcissistic-like fashion, may actually have another undiagnosed ment...

Free-floating Fatigue

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If you find you're very fatigued and don't really know why, trying listening objectively to observe what other people around you do...

Conditioned Patriarchy And Bias

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It's common for those (both men and women) who have been conditioned to believe that Patriarchal hierarchy is real to treat girls and...

What It's Like To Be A Target Of A Narcissist

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If you don't know what it feels like to be a Target of a Narcissist, and you want to learn: (shortcut at bottom of page) ~Ask someone t...

Controllers Can Only Lead Or Follow

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Point of view of a Controller: Imagine that when you're walking with someone you know, you have to either be in front of them or behin...

Fake Friends

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One of the main differences between a fake friend and a real friend: real friends defend their friend (spouse, family member) when someone ...

Role Models On TV

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Do not use television or film characters as role models for acceptable human behavior, or how adults are supposed to act. It's entertai...