Little Gidding

One way to tell if a person might actually the Narcissist, or if they're telling the truth about being the "victim" of their ...

Don't forget the formula: The more you are dealing with, the less the Narcissist can "tolerate" being supportive of you. T...

If a person wants you to be wrong, resents or envies you, or wants to have control, favor, or popularity over you for whatever personal iss...

Constantly being exposed to abusive people behaving abusively can and often does cause mental/emotional illness. Especially for targets o...

One of the main reasons Controllers and Narcissists isolate their Targets from others is so that the Target will not have anyone who is sup...

Only a complete fool puts the blame solely on one (or both) parents when their son or daughter has apparent behavioral or emotional proble...

Where does bigotry and bias come from, especially the kind that is expressed in actively harassing, sabotaging, harming, manipulating, and ...

One of the reasons that bullies seem to get what they want more often is because... they bully other people into giving them what they want...

Fake flattery is one of the "skills" learned by many people who seek acceptance by others. Those who have Narcissism often learn ...

Red flag: Prone to contempt and resentment toward others as an initial reaction to those who are physically different than themselves (s...

The reason there are "affirmations" and quotes that are passed around like pieces of treasure ~ about being a "good person...

Narcissistic abuse can actually cause narcissistic traits and behaviors in targets due to the need to protect one's self from boundary ...

One of the possible effects of Narcissistic abuse: Being TRIGGERED to feel shame, embarrassment, humiliation, anxiety, guilt, or fear when ...

Narcissism MYTHS: ~Wealthy people are all Narcissists; wealth makes people become Narcissists ~Good looking people are Narcissists; beauty ...

Continually giving advice about things you are already proficient at. Offering to help you, or forcing help on you, with things you don...

If you're alone at sea, in a boat that's being tossed by waves and wind, you will be holding on, not paddling or sailing. You will...

Controllers will do whatever it takes to stay in control. Their goal is control, not whatever the goal, activity, or situation is; the proj...

"Mismatching" is the practice of finding things that don't match, obviously, and finding things that are incorrect, flawed, w...

Seems like every time you talk to someone else, the person in your life you suspect has Narcissism has to insert themselves into the conver...

"Losing" your sense of humor is one of the signs of Narcissistic control, abuse, or influence. Humor is one of the things that...