Little Gidding

Many of us feel hopeless because we think we've tried everything to make life better. But, let's be serious, no one has tried ev...

When I am upset with someone about their lack of friendship, support, or respect toward me, the first thing I ask is "how much frie...

The first step on the path to enlightenment is the hardest; it is to simply listen, and hear. And when you have done so, go to the beginnin...

"Tuning out" is what those with control issues do on a daily basis. It is nearly impossible to have a direct conversation about...

Tom, get your plane right on time. I know your part'll go fine. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-IwYQ1Vqf_4

What can I do today to feel better? What can I do today to help someone else feel better, or to help? What can I avoid doing that might bri...

The Hope of my heart alights a paper lantern skyward and beyond ~P. Scanlon

When the burden, pain, or fear we carry is great, we can become unable to differentiate our friends from our enemies. We can forget that ...

We humans only want to hear what we expect to hear from who we expect to hear it from. It makes us feel warm inside when a Dad throws a b...

Everyone wants everyone to respect and care about what they have to say, to really listen and try to understand what they are trying to ...

Why is the world screwed up? Gee maybe it's because of that giant SNOWBALL... Without a courteous, supportive, reasonably civilize...

One of the main ways a controller/abuser keeps a hold on their target is with threat of abandonment. This tack works well on children, and ...

One thing healthy families and friends don't do is triangulate. They don't gossip about one another, pit one against the other, ...

People who have Narcissism disorder do a lot of the same things as people who don't have the disorder. The difference is why they are d...

Narcissists hate it when one of their royal subjects says "Me too!" or or "I have had a similar experience" or "I...

In order to overcome or avoid an obstacle, you have to know it's there to begin with. Birds fly into window glass all the time because ...

A common trait of Narcissism is competitiveness. When a narcissist sees someone doing something that might get attention or the least bit o...

Once again, I sit in amazement as I read comment after comment, post after post, and rant after rant by seemingly intelligent people who ap...

If people with Aspergers/autism get along fine with other people who have autism, and don't bully or make fun of either autistic peop...

It is good to prove our own strength and ability to ourselves, and let it build our confidence. Comparing ourselves to others and trying to...