Little Gidding

It's not necessarily obvious, it doesn't always look like abuse. Sometimes it looks a lot like normal and healthy human interaction...

A reader asks: "Why don't my partner's friends or certain family members welcome me, or treat me with respect?" (This...

"I get to be the boss because I'm the Best Person here!" ~ "The Happy Conductor" Perhaps the majority of people ...

Training Camp! Why do human cultures, families, organizations and communities seem to have such a hard time making progress, achieving pe...

There are several character Archetypes that many people often try to put on as an image to present to the world. It can be benign, even pos...

An effect of Narcissism targeting is confusion about money. The child who grows up in a family where there is one or more Narcissists is ex...

"We can’t be surprised by unconscious stereotypes about women when we still embrace a culture suffused with highly sexualized, friv...

If you're worried that "they're right", that you are the Narc., then don't wait, do some actual scientific observa...

The image that many Narcissists work on is just like a "logo" or a "brand" on a product. It presents them as someone we...

Some things people do who haven't been targets of Narcissistic individuals, groups, families or communities: ~Believe in themselves ~Fe...

Narcissistic abuse affects a target in a specific way, it makes the target constantly self-conscious. Targets are always double-checking th...

Non-Narcissists LIKE IT when someone else seems like a "kindred spirit", so they often don't protect themselves from Narcissi...

It can be difficult, really difficult, to pull out compassion toward someone who's been trying to dominate us or trash us, but that...

The main obstacle most humans experience when seeking enlightenment is really very small when seen without the ego. Accepting this simple r...

Your real friends are the ones who don't scatter like Dandelion Seeds when the wind blows; who reply to your messages and respond to y...

Why imagine another to be less, rather than more? Why do we imagine that we can assess the limitations of other people? Because that...

When we're trying to figure out why we have such stressful lives, one of the things we can look at is what we are bonding with others...

It is not uncommon for some men to distance themselves from good, platonic female friends because they're trying to stay in the ...