Little Gidding

Why is one behavior self-preservation, and another "Narcissism"? Since humans are born with built-in survival mechanisms, like ...

Trying to "knock someone off their high-horse" is a common behavior in a narcissism-infused community or group. The behavior is f...

If people didn't judge others on superficial appearances, and make assumptions about them based on the way they look, then half the b...

Being stuck in the preadolescent stage of being "star struck" is part of the mystery behind devaluation. (Devaluation is when a p...

It's no big mystery about why there are more men who cheat regularly than women who cheat. Boys are TAUGHT by men around them and by ...

One of the very large differences in the way most boys and girls are raised in many current cultures revolves around being taught to care f...

There are specific reasons why Controllers project shame onto targets regarding money and resources. ~ Controllers usually do not want...

The "self-improvement police". "You should cut your hair" "You should get this job" "You need to clean...

This is just common sense, simple math, common logic. It's not some "high ideal".  If more people actually had common se...

A very common destructive behavior that humans will do, but Narcissists take to a higher level, is engage MORE, and engage more respectfull...

Every human being born into this world is real, just as real as every other human being. When we look at a group of kittens or puppies, we ...

One of the main symptoms of living in a "crazy making" environment is a decreased intellectual capacity. The brain is being ca...

It's not necessarily obvious, it doesn't always look like abuse. Sometimes it looks a lot like normal and healthy human interaction...

A reader asks: "Why don't my partner's friends or certain family members welcome me, or treat me with respect?" (This...

"I get to be the boss because I'm the Best Person here!" ~ "The Happy Conductor" Perhaps the majority of people ...

Training Camp! Why do human cultures, families, organizations and communities seem to have such a hard time making progress, achieving pe...

There are several character Archetypes that many people often try to put on as an image to present to the world. It can be benign, even pos...

An effect of Narcissism targeting is confusion about money. The child who grows up in a family where there is one or more Narcissists is ex...

"We can’t be surprised by unconscious stereotypes about women when we still embrace a culture suffused with highly sexualized, friv...