Little Gidding

When we begin to believe that we are one of those without arrogance, bigotry, or ego, we may want to count our resentments and annoyances...

The "Crazy-Making", Narcissistic, generally abusive behavior coming from men does LOOK different on the outside from abusive beha...

http://www.upworthy.com/watch-this-incredible-young-woman-render-jon-stewart-speechless?c=ufb1 Malala on the Daily Show with Jon Stewart,...

Misunderstanding the difference between legitimate authority and made-up social hierarchy is one of the traits that's common in those...

It's normal to feel uncomfortable and even ill when faced with evidence that we've been living with false assumptions and beliefs...

Yes, you CAN change how others generally treat you by changing your own behavior and appearance. But that's definitely NOT the whole ...

Narcissists DO commonly treat those who they get a "smart/intelligent" vibe from with disrespect and condescension. By the time...

Bias is basically when I'm supportive and interested in one kind of person, but bored with and non-supportive toward another kind of ...

Narcissists only "like" you when you are on the same page as they are. But it's not just the same page, it's the same p...

How do they (Controllers, Narcissists, Bullies) STAY in that "leader" position like they do? Even though you can see clearly ho...

Personal vent creep-out: People who don't think women are, can, or should be: funny, confident, smart, experienced, skilled, strong, ...

Birds Of A Feather Flock Together~ One of the more visible developmental delays that can occur in those who have been groomed as a "...

Why is one behavior self-preservation, and another "Narcissism"? Since humans are born with built-in survival mechanisms, like ...

Trying to "knock someone off their high-horse" is a common behavior in a narcissism-infused community or group. The behavior is f...

If people didn't judge others on superficial appearances, and make assumptions about them based on the way they look, then half the b...

Being stuck in the preadolescent stage of being "star struck" is part of the mystery behind devaluation. (Devaluation is when a p...

It's no big mystery about why there are more men who cheat regularly than women who cheat. Boys are TAUGHT by men around them and by ...

One of the very large differences in the way most boys and girls are raised in many current cultures revolves around being taught to care f...

There are specific reasons why Controllers project shame onto targets regarding money and resources. ~ Controllers usually do not want...

The "self-improvement police". "You should cut your hair" "You should get this job" "You need to clean...