Little Gidding

A seldom mentioned loss that one suffers from any kind of Narcissistic abuse can be hard for anyone to embrace or even admit, and that is t...

We tend to see others how we see them, from our own imagination, not how they really are. We tend to fixate on certain markers that are f...

"...I think that the healing professions in general are remiss in not considering in every case that presents signs of depression, lo...

Being in a 'relationship' with a Narcissistic person is a lot like trying to play ball with one. You throw the ball, they ca...

For some Narcissists, their "supply" is just attention, perhaps praise, and possibly affection and comfort. They might actually b...

When Codependency turns into Narcissistic control, it's often because the person has taken on the IDENTITY of "The Caregiver"...

We humans need connection with other people, it's really how we're made. That's what we are getting and seeking from relationsh...

You really have to wonder about cultures that tell children they need to act a certain way and do certain things in order to BECOME the sex...

Political Correctness Sucks BECAUSE... Because most people can't handle it. Most people don't get it, they don't even know w...

It's only bigots who hate it when people bring up prejudices like sexism and racism; I don't abuse animals, so it doesn't ...

Being an arrogant leader is easy. Being a genuine leader is hard. The first lives inside of ego, and the second inside humility. The first ...

"Projection" comes in different forms, and is done for different reasons by those with p.d.'s or mental illness. It's mos...

"I'm afraid to say that the tendency to bond with one's own sex to the exclusion of the other is a childhood stage. It inclu...

There has long been, in certain tribal cultures, debate over whether men and women were equal with one another. The same debate has gone o...

When we're annoyed and upset that strangers, acquaintances, and not very close friends don't know "important things" abou...

Controllers/Narcissists tend to feel entitled to assign "jobs", "skills" and "innate ability" to OTHER people...

Ad Hominem .

Hating it when someone does something that displays skill, talent, or knowledge can be seen in several personality disorders, and also in a...

Nailed it. Humans aren't a bunch of different species, there's only one, unless Sasquatch is alive, and even then we'd hav...

Judging others as emotionally and mentally "weak" is a sign of  narcissism, and usually correlates with judging one's self to...