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Aspiring Artists, Musicians, Writers, Actors, Etc., and Dealing With Narcissists

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Those who are in "the Arts", especially those who do original work, often find out early about how widespread and severe Narcissi...

Sexism, Racism, and Christianity

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Both racism and sexism are anti-Christian. So is any other "ism". There are no "lower" children of God, or "hi...

Control Freak Much? Bratty, Spoiled, Immature Control Freaks Have Always Competed For "King"

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People who think that "equality for women" has been a normal part of life for generations are quite mistaken. Equality has never ...

Fear Of Other Groups

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Fear of "other" groups, of losing control and power to them: "Only those who seek control and domination over others reco...

Who Do I Listen To And Believe? Who Do I Ignore And Dismiss?

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Human beings are taught to accept and believe information from certain types of people, and literally reject it from other types of people....

Free Will

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Recovery from Narcissistic control, trauma, and codependency includes remembering one's own sacred gift of Free Will. I invite you to...

Playing Catch, or Playing Pickle~ Depends On The Drama Factor

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The energy displacement that happens when we are dealing with frustrating, confusing, and conflicted relationships causes fatigue, tirednes...

Focus, Where Is Yours?

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Focus. When there is a person who has some form of Narcissism somewhere in our lives, that is where our minds are usually focused; we thi...

The Lantern Within; Human Connection and Manipulation

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All people hold a kind of lantern within themselves, a natural energy that emanates warmth and light, When we are near one another we conne...

They Don't Like Your Confidence Or Ability

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There are a lot of people in the world who don't like it when someone else is strong in themselves. They are dangerous because they don...

Holiday Anger

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Today is one of the days in the year, for me, when I have a hard time with all of the feelings that make me want to scream into satellit...

Competition For Approval And Status

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It's common for people within a group to compete for the approval and attention of the "Leader" in that group. The more dysfu...

Your Negativity Drags Me Down...

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Narcissists presume themselves to be the ones who are innocent of any wrongdoing or lack, and identify themselves as the beleaguered, burde...

Tough Guy, or Fitting In?

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Acting like a "tough person",  or a "self-righteous person" is a behavior that human beings adapt when they're in a...

When We Leave: Loss Of Identity, Changes of Identity And Social Status

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A seldom mentioned loss that one suffers from any kind of Narcissistic abuse can be hard for anyone to embrace or even admit, and that is t...

How We See Others

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We tend to see others how we see them, from our own imagination, not how they really are. We tend to fixate on certain markers that are f...

Narcissistic Victim Syndrome, CPTSD

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"...I think that the healing professions in general are remiss in not considering in every case that presents signs of depression, lo...

Like Playing Ball (With A Narcissist)

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Being in a 'relationship' with a Narcissistic person is a lot like trying to play ball with one. You throw the ball, they ca...

Attention and Praise Seeking Narcissism

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For some Narcissists, their "supply" is just attention, perhaps praise, and possibly affection and comfort. They might actually b...

Caregiver As IDENTITY: Caregiving, Leading, Codependency and Narcissism

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When Codependency turns into Narcissistic control, it's often because the person has taken on the IDENTITY of "The Caregiver"...