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"Status", "Respect", and "Hierarchy" According To ...

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What is it that humans use to create "Hierarchies"? What is the CRITERIA that humans use to determine who deserves "RESPEC...

Selective Amnesia? Did He/She Really Forget Saying Those Awful Things?

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 Imagine speaking, but not hearing or listening to your words, your tone, or your volume. Kind of like when you're wearing headphones a...

Self Improvement

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Self-improvement of any kind is often uncomfortable, even painful, because it requires looking at ourselves in a direct light, and looking ...

Who Is "Allowed" To Be Logical, Analytical, Straightforward and Non-submissive?

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Playing character roles that are created and assigned by someone else is typical for people who live in a community or family that has a l...

Anything You Can Do, I Can Do Better...

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There is a funny old song that makes fun of immaturity and Narcissism. It's supposed to be sung with two people, and it goes: Perso...

Child Bullying, Preventing Future Narcissistic Abusers and Targets

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" Eyes On Bullying " is a well-built website about bullying, and with advice on teaching children how to deal with bullies in the...

Mastery Of Skill And Subject: Effects Of Narcissistic Abuse

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What is one of the main things that people with Codependency, Borderline Personality Disorder, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, general a...

Oppression Sexism Racism Domination

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There are a few things about the human species that ring and echo through generations, through race, ancestry and bloodlines, through both ...

Can Men And Women Be Just Friends?

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This is a "hot topic" around the net, and in scientific circles. It comes up a lot in conversation. Here's the thing: If ...

Rights, Ethics, And Maturity

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Without maturity , there can be no "Rights". Maturity is not about conformity, copying others, or fitting in, nor is it a...

Projection: Accusing Others Of What One Feels Guilty Or Ashamed Of

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Projection is a common behavior in human beings, even in many who are aware of the behavior in themselves and others. It's one of those...

Empathy vs. Narcissism

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Empathy is when we recognize the feelings and different point of view of another, and are able to "put ourselves in their shoes"....

Anthropophobia: the fear of people

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"Anthropophobia, or the fear of people, is a commonly misunderstood phobia. It often resembles social phobia, but is not precisely the...

Brief Advice About Dealing With People Who May Have A Personality Disorder Or Mental Illness

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Some unsolicited advice (take what you need and leave the rest) about relating with people who you suspect are showing signs of narcissism ...

Humans Judge Others, Wrongly, On ANYTHING and EVERYTHING

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Those who are aware of the human tendency to make gigantic, completely baseless assumptions about others are also aware of how far-reachin...

My Point Of View Is The Only Correct Point Of View

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"This is what I like, so you should like it too. This is what I believe, so you should believe it too. This is what I think, so you sh...

Love Is Blind; So Is Hate

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We talk all the time about how LOVE blinds us to reality about other people, and how infatuation blinds us as well. But we avoid talking ...

Measuring Sticks : Superiority, Inferiority

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Those with superiority/inferiority issues will often take certain traits about themselves or about another person and use that as evide...

Science, Superiority, Control, Emotion, Bias

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Those who are obsessed with domination, control, and/or supremacy have these things as their top priority in life. It's the filter they...