Little Gidding

Gossip: Monkey see, monkey do. Remember that most people (including ourselves) tend to follow the "lead" of other people around...

Getting a "fix" from casting shame, disrespect, and blame on others is common for those with entitlement issues, especially whe...

"Victim Blame" doesn't just mean blaming the victim. It also means sympathizing with the perpetrator, instead of the victim. ...

Wondering: Do all adults who are "Anti-abortion" voluntarily and willingly support, or at least happily help support babies and c...

In "romantic relationships", Narcissists are much more concerned with keep their "options open" than with actually buil...

Assessing others to be "worthy" of their acceptance and their approval is common in those who believe they have natural entitleme...

When a person is talking about racism, and you are listening to them, do you assume that their goal is altruistic and innocent, or do you d...

We have a long, long, LOOOONG history in this world of demonizing people we disagree with, and who threaten our hierarchies and our egos. ...

ob·jec·tiv·i·ty [ob-jik-tiv-i-tee, -jek-]  noun 1. the state or quality of being objective: He tries to maintain objectivity in his ju...

Narcissists are often drawn to choosing "romantic partners", or even platonic friends, because they think this person will IMPRES...

People with garden-variety narcissism usually want others to be super-understanding, supportive, sympathetic, considerate, accommodating...

A rather common Control behavior that can be seen in many humans is trying to "shut others down" when they don't agree with t...

Not all Narcissists cheat, but infidelity is common for those who have the disorder. Everything about infidelity aligns with NPD. Doing ...

It amazes me how many people call themselves "Liberals" now who are nothing of the sort. A real "Liberal" would be so...

Standing Ovation! Especially for the wink~;) that was fantastic! It's not over yet, but so far, so awesome .

Having Narcissism means not being able to accept, take in, or comprehend incoming information as it really is. Processing incoming inform...

Trust is earned. Relationships are built over time, and earned trust is what the building blocks are made of. Genuine trust cannot be ea...

This is from "Messages From God". It's very poignant to Control and Narcissism because this is one of the main things a Contr...

A serious and common effect of growing up in a community and/or family that's dysfunctional is a lack of ability to attach an EMOTION ...

" You aren't a REAL singer, though . You don't have any hit songs, and you don't have a big recording contract. Now my ...