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Getting A "Fix" From Sexism

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People who treat members of the opposite sex with disrespect are most likely doing the same thing to members of their own sex. ...

Narcissism, Hierarchy, Scammers: Inability To Accept And Process Information

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Not being able to take in, process, and remember new information that does not line up with what's already in their head is one of the ...

Crazy-Making Double-Standards

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Little, subtle crazy-making behaviors keep others in the loop of those with control issues. Double-standards are part of daily life with th...

Self-Promotion, Worldly Success, Narcissists

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One of the ways many Narcissists achieve apparent worldly success in various endeavors is with self-promotion. A lot of it. Without a filte...

Arrested Development, Childhood Stages

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Codependent people who also have Narcissism issues can be stuck in the childhood stage before one learns that the world does NOT actually r...

Abusers And Targets Have In Common: Weakened Boundaries

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Injured or weakened boundaries is something that both abuse targets and abusers have in common. That's often the thing people mistake f...

Dr. Phil, Helping Or Hurting Society

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One of the reasons I like to watch Dr. Phil is because the show helps illustrate and demonstrate the differences in various disorders and i...

Some Signs That Someone Might Have Narcissism

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Some of the first things one may notice when a person in their life has some level of Narcissism may include: a "strong" presence...

Gossip, Slander, And Following The Crowd

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Gossip: Monkey see, monkey do. Remember that most people (including ourselves) tend to follow the "lead" of other people around...

"Getting Off" On Putting Others Down

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Getting a "fix" from casting shame, disrespect, and blame on others is common for those with entitlement issues, especially whe...

Victim Blame

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"Victim Blame" doesn't just mean blaming the victim. It also means sympathizing with the perpetrator, instead of the victim. ...

Anti-Abortion (my shiny butt)

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Wondering: Do all adults who are "Anti-abortion" voluntarily and willingly support, or at least happily help support babies and c...

Romantic Love And Narcissism

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In "romantic relationships", Narcissists are much more concerned with keep their "options open" than with actually buil...

Judging You For Worthiness

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Assessing others to be "worthy" of their acceptance and their approval is common in those who believe they have natural entitleme...

Inciting Hatred With Accusations Of Bigotry

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When a person is talking about racism, and you are listening to them, do you assume that their goal is altruistic and innocent, or do you d...

Demonizing People We Don't Like

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We have a long, long, LOOOONG history in this world of demonizing people we disagree with, and who threaten our hierarchies and our egos. ...

Objectivity, Who Has It?

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ob·jec·tiv·i·ty [ob-jik-tiv-i-tee, -jek-]  noun 1. the state or quality of being objective: He tries to maintain objectivity in his ju...

Aligning With The Narcissist's Image

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Narcissists are often drawn to choosing "romantic partners", or even platonic friends, because they think this person will IMPRES...

ADULT LAND

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People with garden-variety narcissism usually want others to be super-understanding, supportive, sympathetic, considerate, accommodating...

Entitlement And "Shutting Others Down"

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A rather common Control behavior that can be seen in many humans is trying to "shut others down" when they don't agree with t...