Little Gidding

Dating more than one person, dating lots of people, is not evidence of "bad character". It is evidence of a person with good bo...

~Tina H The list of rules that the sociopath/narcissist expects his /her target to live by... 1. I can say anything I like. You are n...

Withholding approval is a tool/weapon that most Controller personalities use. When we are children, we seek approval from the adults close ...

How does conditioning work~ in the simplest terms, we were taught what to see in the world around us, and not to see what's really ther...

"Infantalizing" is when someone is treated as if they are incapable, as if they are much younger and less knowledgeable and exp...

Political Party Propaganda is used by each party to rile you up and get you to choose a side. Once you have picked your "team",...

It is more common for women in Western culture to be careful that their behavior and speech falls within acceptance of those around them. T...

  There are (many) people who will only let you play with them if they believe you think more of them than you do of yourself. They will...

It is now finally recognized that sex bias does indeed exist in the supposedly objective and clinical world of  psychiatry and psychology. ...

"Banter" : Light hearted, humorous, often witty exchanges between two or more people, often seen in healthy social groups. Tho...

Logic dictates that: If we believe that anyone who becomes a minister has deep-seated personal issues (psychological) with religion, and...

"And now you see the problem. From birth we're taught that we're owed a beautiful girl. We all think of ourselves as the hero ...

Those who create a hostile environment are often unaware of the level of hostility they are creating, or the effect it has. No white peop...

On a basic level, the person who has severe narcissism is much like a wild animal who has lost their fear of humans; the animal will not bi...

Liberals tolerate other people lifestyles and choices. Liberals listen to other people's opinions even if they are not the same as t...

The most popular way to destroy a female's reputation, and thereby weaken or remove normal support networks made up of friends, family,...

Narcissistic people condition their targets to believe that they don't "fit in" with the rest of the population, that they are...

Dependent and controlling people are very good at knocking their target out of a "dream state". We all need to have daydream v...

How common is it, in your opinion, for a man to seek and expect "mothering" from random women? (As in: nurturing, gift-giving, p...

So I am sick of being surrounded by chaotic people who drive me crazy. And I am sick of always being broke. I am sick of fighting with them...