Little Gidding

The most obvious trait of a Narcissist is that they believe they are above self-examination. All their problems are because of another pe...

When we have Controllers in our lives, especially narcissists of varying degrees, we can forget what it's like to simply BE. When we...

One of the complaints many parents have is that their adolescent child will listen intently to everything their favorite teacher, coach, fr...

True generosity and philanthropy. Sharing talents with the world, and hoping they'll be received gracefully. Trusting in the pros...

When we have "black and white thinking", we can know someone who is consistently kind, a good friend, even who is generous and ...

A person with a Control Personality sees the world and the people in it like the swirl of a solar system. To the Control Person, people ...

The difference between Cliques and Friendship Groups is control. One is based on control, and the other has no interest in control. When ...

When someone sees a spider or snake, or perhaps a hornet or a centipede, they may instantly react with obvious fear or panic. It shows, you...

Isolating friends, partners and family members from one another is a common trait of narcissism, but non-narc. people with social anxiety...

Why are there more Narc. Males than Narc. Females in the general population? (And there are, make no mistake.) It's all about the Cul...

(From H. McFarland) In a recent sermon (view "God the Father" from 5/16, starting at 28:30), Pastor Ira Hall expounds upon E...

"The accusation of feminism against any woman who would rather obey God than men gets quite tedious." ~ M.Reid  ~I Concur 100...

I just found the "Quivering Daughters" Web Log, and it is instantly among my favorites. Well written, well organized, and most im...

One of the things that happens to us when we have gone through abuse, whether it was from family, classmates, workmates, or a partner, is...

Narcissist Myth: "They are extremely intelligent." Reality: High IQ does not a Narcissist make, and in fact it more often than ...

Gossip is something that some people do in order to make themselves feel innocent, by devaluing someone else. It is narcissistic when anyon...

We decide we know what kind of people are "wise" and "worthy", who knows things and who doesn't, who is respect-wor...

Since when do the men who complain that women don't go for "nice guys" ever go for "nice girls"?  Huh, what was t...

A hallmark of a Narcissist is being the self-appointed "gatekeeper" of a group, club, community or workplace, but not in a good w...

You can bet you have a purpose. Dont let these people have another beautiful casualty! Just remember even if it's just you and God in...