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Delusions Of Grandeur And Status

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That feeling of "hierarchy" in the social groups in the community is created first in childhood by the actual, real hierarchy t...

Punishment And Reward: Red Light Runners

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It’s Mr Incredible who first showed you just how wonderful you are, and you believed him.  Somewhere along the line, things got switched,...

Business And Narcissists

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If you've ever been a business partner or worked on any kind of project with a Narcissist, you probably know what it's like to b...

Narcissism and Sexism

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Sexism is a big issue for many narcissists, both female and male, and it can take different forms, but it's always about identity. One ...

Bias And Power

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There is always bias for one sex and bias against the other if the culture has a power imbalance. Whichever sex holds the power of wealth...

Culture Sludge

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"Oh my GOSH did you see what she was WEARING?" "You need to get a life!" "Look at the pictures he posts, he thin...

The Blessing Of Remorse

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That feeling that's referred to as "remorse" and the one called "guilt"< they are integral to staying human, you...

Regular People

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"Regular" people do things all the time that are narcky , (narcissistic), like making assumptions about others, taking moods o...

Cognitive Dissonance - The Battle Of The Two Selves

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 Red Light Runners Cognitive Dissonance – The Battle Of The Two Selves June 16, 2013 It's an Emergency ...

Fetch Me My Jacket

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One of the results of having injured or weakened boundaries, especially if one is not aware of it or self-aware, can be perceiving anyone...

Platonic Friendships~ personal note~

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On a personal note, I am a bit "skeeved out", frankly, by people who don't make "platonic" friendships with people ...

Communication

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The way we learn to communicate while we're growing up is the way we communicate as adults. If we learn several methods of communicatio...

WHAT I WANT IS WHAT I NEED! (?)

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"WHAT I WANT IS WHAT I NEED! IT'S MORE IMPORTANT THAN ANYTHING OR ANYONE, I DON'T CARE ABOUT ANYTHING ELSE, HOW IT AFFECTS ANY...

Healthy Friendships, Happy Relationships, Peaceful And Productive Life

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There are things a healthy human being expects from others around them in life, from those who call themselves "family" and ...

Healthy Expectations In Relationships

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There are things a healthy human being expects from others around them in life, from those who call themselves "family" and ...

WHY Did The Narcissist Pick Me?!

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The great question for those who have been through narcissistic abuse is WHY ?  Why do narcissists and control freaks single out one p...

Anxiety And Controllers

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One of the ways controller personalities cause anxiety in their target (until the target realizes what they're doing) is following thei...

Judgmental People

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One of the more difficult things to actually grasp about narcissism for many is the reason they treat certain people like they're les...

Innate Power And Authority

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Those with certain "narcissist" issues will often fixate on a person they do or don't know personally, and make them the c...

All Narcissists Are Men~?

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Once and for all, when someone is talking about "Narcissism" or "Abusers" they are not referring to MALES. Unless the s...