Little Gidding

Some things people do who haven't been targets of Narcissistic individuals, groups, families or communities: ~Believe in themselves ~Fe...

Narcissistic abuse affects a target in a specific way, it makes the target constantly self-conscious. Targets are always double-checking th...

Non-Narcissists LIKE IT when someone else seems like a "kindred spirit", so they often don't protect themselves from Narcissi...

It can be difficult, really difficult, to pull out compassion toward someone who's been trying to dominate us or trash us, but that...

The main obstacle most humans experience when seeking enlightenment is really very small when seen without the ego. Accepting this simple r...

Your real friends are the ones who don't scatter like Dandelion Seeds when the wind blows; who reply to your messages and respond to y...

Why imagine another to be less, rather than more? Why do we imagine that we can assess the limitations of other people? Because that...

When we're trying to figure out why we have such stressful lives, one of the things we can look at is what we are bonding with others...

It is not uncommon for some men to distance themselves from good, platonic female friends because they're trying to stay in the ...

Truly, the only real way to see through the tactics of Narcissists is to watch our own triggers and behaviors regarding other people. As...

What makes the average person stop focusing on learning new things, doing fun activities, studying, working, and having "normal" ...

Most people really are only nice to those who have something they want, who do what they like, and who make them feel good about themselves...

Space Invaders: People who don't respect the personal space of other human beings. Space Invaders most often invade the space of tho...

Denial is a human brain function, we all have it, and the ultimate irony is we all tend to ...deny... that we have it. It's just our ...

Refusing to see you as "equal" to themselves, refusing to see you for who you actually are, refusing to acknowledge your real a...

Some behaviors of many Controllers include: Speaking and behaving without greeting, social grace, or ceremony on a regular basis. It varies...

Three common social signals that we probably don't realize we're doing, that indicate "submission", "weakness...

Controllers do what they can personally get away with. A controller woman is going to be noticed by others bossing around an all male const...

An unfortunate side effect of growing up in any imbalanced, dysfunctional community, culture, or family is that EVERYONE gets conditioned t...

Humans are hard-wired for companionship. We're biologically "group animals". Our brains are designed for us to live and sur...