Little Gidding

Controllers do what they can personally get away with. A controller woman is going to be noticed by others bossing around an all male const...

An unfortunate side effect of growing up in any imbalanced, dysfunctional community, culture, or family is that EVERYONE gets conditioned t...

Humans are hard-wired for companionship. We're biologically "group animals". Our brains are designed for us to live and sur...

Those who oppress only target those whom they fear are more powerful than themselves.

"You are not a throw away object, don't let people treat you like one. You are precious, irreplaceable, there's no one like ...

A note of sincere thanks and gratitude to customer service, technical support, sales and any other position that deals directly with cus...

Believe it or not, many human beings often reserve their approval and support for those whom they're seeking it FROM. The basis of favo...

Be easier on yourself, be easier on others. Judgmental attitudes and the projection of shame cause darkness, not light. The fact is, the ...

Let me skate on the clear and fast high notes of your spirit song M.M.Black 

Narcissism flag: Negative reaction to another person's noticeable level of talent, skill, intelligence, natural attractiveness, knowled...

Time and again I find it so strange that so many who champion "equality" for races and ancestries, even making careers out of the...

The skewed and/or absent feedback from narcissistic friends, family members, and partners can cause serious anxiety and depression, esp...

During childhood, we develop a "feeling" of who is who, and this feeling stays with us. We choose early which kind of people ar...

Most people are ten times more likely to reject another person because of "personality conflict" than because of actual wrong-d...

First they trash her because she's a child-idol (oh what a great reason to trash someone)... then they trash her because "she only...

Why do they call it "Malignant Narcissism"? Watch "The Crucible" Read history. Pay closer attention to how and why peop...

Judgment and name-calling is usually really just deflection and projection. The person who's afraid to be judged as a "loser...

One of the positive things the Media and Social Media has accomplished is waking so many people up to the fact that they're not insig...

 Forms of Sabotage And Domination Some common subtle and obvious forms of sabotage and domination displays*: > frequently interrup...

Children, younger and older, are going to reject guidance and rebel against their parents, teachers, and other adults. It's what they d...