Huh??? So Conan IS Qualified To Be A TV Talk Show Host, WHY???

This is really a hilarious rant, and I am personally taken aback and pissed off that Conan turned out to be One Of Them. The BODYSNATCHER INVASION IS AMONG US, FOLKS!

If anyone wants to explain to me how Elisabeth Hasselback is NOT "qualified" to ask the president a question on the show she is a HOST on, please try, I'll be waiting to laugh my ass off at you. In the meantime, I think CONAN needs to run all of his questions for any of his hosts by the someone who is WAY MORE QUALIFIED in some way than he is. What would you suggest, a PhD in Journalism and Political Science, along with a career of about 45 years as an ambassador? (Last I checked, this is the USA, one of the most precious freedoms that CONAN of ALL PEOPLE should be highly protective of, is freedom of speech, and for citizens to have full access to asking government officials ANYTHING THEY WANT TO KNOW, umm... especially if the President has VOLUNTEERED to be on YOUR TALK SHOW... Are you writing this down, Conan?)
What is it about her that you think makes her LESS QUALIFIED than YOU? Her HAIR? Maybe it's the way she has boobies... that always changes the STATUS LEVEL of a human, and what about that CUTE LITTLE POUT! How DARE she act like a real citizen who is doing the job she was hired for! Like, Oh My God! Gag me with a spoon!
I DON'T THINK HIS HAIR IS THE RIGHT COLOR, FRANKLY!

 Click here:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/09/26/conan-rages-against-elisabeck-questioning-obama_n_1915577.html?ir=Media

Just Jarrin' Ya~ but seriously.

Manifesting Money

Some guidance on manifesting money, from Steve Pavlina. CLICKhttp://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2010/11/how-to-manifest-money/ THIS LINK TO READ IT

"If you want to manifest money, but you believe that money is its own power source, then deep down you’re giving money the power to say no to you. If money has power, then it can refuse to show up."

Gentle Giant Syndrome

Gentle Giant Syndrome: When a person feels superior toward anyone who is smaller than they are. They equate physical size with intelligence, experience, and status, and they actually believe that this measurement is real. People with Gentle Giant Syndrome often feel as if they are going out of their way just by treating someone smaller with normal courtesy. They often believe that only those who are their height or taller are as capable and intelligent as they are. They do things such as ignore another person's personal space; talk to one person as if they are a "fellow elite" and not to the smaller person standing right next to them; talk through a person's head to another as if they aren't even there; demand that a smaller person submit to their wishes; condescend to smaller persons; deny "good business" practices to smaller persons.

 ~M.Black

Narcissism Revealed

Basically, an adult Narcissist is just a person who grew up but did not go through what others go through as far as learning how to interact with others, and why. Either for external or internal reasons, or both, a person with Narcissism did not learn WHY it is better for everyone if we behave a certain way, or do certain things, or have AWARENESS. They may never even have been shown or taught that there is Life outside their personal realm at all.
We have all known children who did not treat others with respect, or manners; who wanted what they wanted, no matter what, and would throw a fit if they didn't get it. Children who did not say "thank you" when given gifts, and who did not say "Please" when asking for something, or who didn't even ask at all, as if others were paid help.
Many of us forget that the reason we learned these lessons is because we were TAUGHT, purposely, and usually by more than by just one parent.
All of the people around us teach us by example, constantly.
If we are surrounded by negative, controlling, pessimistic, scarcity minded, narcissistic or abusive people, then that is the mindset we learn to have, even if we fight it. Even if we can see it while we're growing up, it still makes a huge mark on the way we see the world; it forges lenses for us to see our selves, our lives, and our worlds through. If no one teaches us how or why to NOT be Narcissistic, then there's a good chance we will become that way too, and not even know why, or that we are.
Basically Narcissism can be seen as a kind of internalized childishness, a lack of awareness that one did not go through certain growth and learning stages. Like a permanent 6th or 7th grader who has not learned about humility yet, who seeks all the rewards of adulthood without understanding anything about adulthood. It's really more like a disability, and renders the sufferer very much alone inside, without knowing why.

Stupid Blogs About Psychology

sOn behalf of human behavior/psychology nerds who post and discuss the subject:

Think of it as collecting rocks, and talking about it.

Geologists are interested in what's already there, they're not creating anything new in order to have something to study.
Exactly the same as people who observe and study human behavior and psychology. Discussing what exists right in front of us does not "create trouble", except for people who have a vested, personal interest in keeping it hidden.

Why would someone NOT want someone else to study and discuss human behavior? Why do they want it to be hidden, mysterious, undercover? Why would they take something that we all experience every day as a personal attack? To someone who studies humans, that's akin to pretending the weather is "sunny and clear" every day, because they can't stand talking about the rain.

People who don't collect rocks often don't get why anyone would enjoy that, but they don't get all freaked out when a Rock Collector posts and discusses their subject of interest. Even if they have arrogance issues and think that rock hounding and being a geologist means a person is "weird", they still don't take it personally, usually, as if geologists are doing something "wrong" to them by studying rocks. (There's rocks in their yard, what about them?)

All human interaction dynamics fall under relationship-based interaction, so anything people write or discuss about human behavior and conditioning can always be seen as relationship-based. The how's and why's, and where it comes from, that's what we study; some humans do certain things more, some less, but all are affected in one way or another.

People who study this subject are often misunderstood by those around them who don't share their focus of interest, and because the subject is HUMAN behavior, lots of people can't understand that it's not personally about THEM specifically, or about the PERSON who is discussing or posting specifically.

Lots of things will apply to anyone reading the post, AND to the person posting, because of the fact that they are HUMANS, and the subject is human behavior and psychology.

If it helps to understand, think of it as studying Canine behavior and psychology, instead of it being "personal". People who own dogs, love dogs, hate dogs or work with dogs will take anything about dogs more personally than people who don't have any personal interest in dogs, and will feel emotional reaction about posts regarding dogs. Those who don't pay attention to dogs don't even know who Cesar Millan IS, but people who do have an emotional reaction to him, and about him.

OR, just ignore it altogether. No one says you have to be interested in the same things as anyone else. AND no one says that anyone has to stop their OWN interests just because you don't like them.

Writers

Writers write. Don't assume you know what they think about what they write, or about themselves, or about anything at all. Unless you enjoy finding out that your assumptions were wrong. Just read it, or don't; either way, it's not going to stop them from writing, anymore than their judgment of your breath is going to stop you from breathing.

Peace

"Peace" is not when others let us get away with anything and everything we do and say to them no matter how rude, irresponsible, or inconsiderate, and not defend their boundaries, or express their emotions. It can only be achieved when we consciously don't do those things in the first place, and take responsibility for the times we slip. It can only be achieved with continual open, clear, and highly respectful communication. It can only be achieved when 'Peace' is the true objective.
In other words, if all in the household seek peace to be given to them by another, but do not make it their focus to give peace, then peace will fail. But if all in the household seek to GIVE peace to each and all of the others, then it will succeed.

Self Confidence and Insecurity In Relationships

The difference between having good boundaries and weak boundaries; between being self-confident and insecure; between being independent and codependent, can look like this:
Your friend or acquaintance makes plans with you for Saturday afternoon, to go to lunch. Saturday comes, and they are nowhere to be found. They message you later and say "I'm sorry I forgot, and I had to work." They do the same thing on Tuesday, and send you a similar message.

Do you: try to figure out why they don't like you; try to be more interesting or cooler so they'll like you better; come up with revenge tactics; decide they are a bad person; "unfriend" them on Facebook to retaliate; try to get others to turn on them with creative gossip~
OR
Do you: simply make a mental note that for some reason unknown to you, that this person is currently having a hard time keeping appointments, and that if you want to remain in a friendship with them, you now know that relying on this person will not be part of the relationship? (Which for most people means the friendship can not become very deep, which is fine and normal).