If
your partner shows that he or she feels contempt for you, or if you feel
it for them, or if you both feel it for each other, that's not normal,
and it's not part of a normal and healthy relationship. There's not
supposed to BE contempt in a relationship, ESPECIALLY in a so-called
"romantic" relationship. Parents are NOT supposed to feel contempt for
their child, that's not normal or healthy, it's
an indication of mental illness. And "romantic partners" are not
supposed to feel contempt for one another either. Contempt is right next
to hatred. Hatred is not a normal part of any relationship, EVER. If
you have contempt for another person, you either need to get help for
that specifically, or you need to be far, far away from that person and
NOT be in contact with them.