If a person wants you to be wrong, resents or envies you, or wants to have control, favor, or popularity over you for whatever personal issues they have, they are likely to:
argue with you about anything
"snap at" you about anything
criticize you for anything at all
judge you as inferior
be purposely non-supportive of your endeavors or goals
be purposely non-supportive of you when you have difficulties
put you down, insult you, make fun of you, harass you
imply that you are crazy, self-centered, or histrionic
make demands of you
not use "manners" or courtesy when talking or interacting with you
cast blame and shame on you for random things
be dishonest with you
invalidate whatever you say or express
say that you're wrong no matter what you're saying (even if you repeat what they just said a few minutes ago, verbatim)
treat you like you don't belong
try to make you feel like you don't belong or "unliked" by treating others around you with attention and courtesy, but NOT you, on purpose.
may try to turn others against you
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These behaviors are flags that you are dealing with a person of lesser maturity who may have a problem with entitlement, a lack of boundary health, and is probably very insecure, or fearful, or intimidated by you.
argue with you about anything
"snap at" you about anything
criticize you for anything at all
judge you as inferior
be purposely non-supportive of your endeavors or goals
be purposely non-supportive of you when you have difficulties
put you down, insult you, make fun of you, harass you
imply that you are crazy, self-centered, or histrionic
make demands of you
not use "manners" or courtesy when talking or interacting with you
cast blame and shame on you for random things
be dishonest with you
invalidate whatever you say or express
say that you're wrong no matter what you're saying (even if you repeat what they just said a few minutes ago, verbatim)
treat you like you don't belong
try to make you feel like you don't belong or "unliked" by treating others around you with attention and courtesy, but NOT you, on purpose.
may try to turn others against you
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These behaviors are flags that you are dealing with a person of lesser maturity who may have a problem with entitlement, a lack of boundary health, and is probably very insecure, or fearful, or intimidated by you.
